Wisdom and Forgiveness

Wisdom is, in part, our capacity to extract meaning and value from our experiences. The more capacity we have to extract meaning from an experience the more likely that we see ways it which good has or will come out of it. This makes naturally makes it easier to forgive. Wisdom is not an abstract … Read more

From Unconscious Mind to Parallel Mind

I am having a bit of a problem with my Unconscious Mind. I am realizing that I don’t have one! “Where did you put it?”, you may ask. “Did it go into the washing machine along with that floppy red hat you like to wear?” As you probably know the term “Unconscious Mind” simply refers … Read more

Hi Tech and The Holy Grail

It is when we ask, “What ails thee? How can I serve?” and respond with our warrior spirit, that we find the Grail. In the quest for the Holy Grail the main turning point is when the hero asks two questions. There are different version of these two questions and each version offers different insights. … Read more

Simple Way to Help Empower People

Some years ago a friend of mine did something which really helped me turn around a situation where I was feeling very challenged. It took her all of two seconds. It was one of the best and most effective things I have ever come across. I was moaning about a situation I was finding feeling … Read more

Shower of Power

The famous motivational expert Anthony Robbins has his Hour of Power; I have my Shower of Power. What is a Shower of Power? Well it`s really very simple. I was looking for a way to bring more positivity into my life. I decided it would be good to find a way to use small routine … Read more

Self Encouragement: The Royal Road to Self Growth

“You are not something broken which needs ‘fixed’. Your are evolving into becoming ‘you’. Encourage yourself to grow by giving yourself self encouragement – positive reinforcement of the best in you. That way you will answer, ‘Who am I?’ and doubts about your self worth, by what you are continuously becoming.” – williamfergusmartin.com_ Self encouragement … Read more

Reconciliation and Apologies

Sometimes we may have a hard time showing remorse. It can be hard to find it within ourselves to take the initiative and offer a straight upfront apology. This can also be true of the person who we feel has harmed us. It might be very difficult for them to admit their error, especially if … Read more

Overcoming Shyness

It can seem like such a minor thing to label something as ‘shyness’. It makes it sound like it is no big deal. However, if we look at the missed opportunities and the loneliness and isolation that can come from shyness we can see that it is no minor thing. Shyness is a big and … Read more

Man with a Hand Cart

In ancient times a man was pushing a hand cart along a track when it got stuck in deep mud. He pushed and pushed for a long time, but he could not get his hand cart out of the mud. He was getting very angry and frustrated at how impossible it was to push the … Read more